Friends

Friends are the best thing to have....they keep you sane and help you throughout hard times, but what i have noticed is that i myself haven't really been there ,i guess you could say, completely like part of myself was missing. but that doesn't matter every time i have seen my friend so far this month he/she has seemed to get sadder and sadder and i feel like i should talk to him/her about it but i can never seem to come up with the right words to say.....so my true question is what are the right words to say to a friend who seems to be in the dumps about something? do you just go over there and ask or do you gradually get him or her to talk about it on their own time? any ways i'm really not the kind of person i guess who would just up and out ask someone about something....idk if it's cuz im shy or im just weird like that lol....but it prolly both but anyway i feel as though if i dont do something soon he/she is going to snap and like go on a massacre type of thingy but oh well....THAT wont be my problem...it will be the cops problem when/ if it gets to that point but im sure that it might possible not get to that point where he/she just snaps and if he/she does snap then well im just gonna go hide in a cave or something lol jkjk i wouldn't do that really i would try and prolly do something about it right after he/she snaps so im just a procrastinator or something like that....